If you feel that people behind a keyboard and online avatar can accurately judge a person... no they cant.
People in real life can't even do that.
If you stop because you are no longer having fun- thats a great choice please stop even following the forums and things like that. Make a clean break. But if you stop because you are afraid of others' opinion in the game then thats really stupid and you're going to come back one day to face a game you cant face.
Getting emotional baggage from a game is really retarded; real life sees to that without your help. Honestly no one cares if you are a good person or a bad person; right, wrong... That shits' all relative anyway.
Just my 2c, hopefully as short as I tried to make it. Idk I could be wrong.
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